tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post1935391947544685683..comments2023-12-03T06:40:50.836-08:00Comments on Capricious Bubbles: On AngerShinyunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03223210004939369907noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post-86480066105984323862013-01-21T21:26:55.911-08:002013-01-21T21:26:55.911-08:00Spend too much time alone with kids and they start...Spend too much time alone with kids and they start to seem like adults. You lose perspective. I have a friend who says that taking time away from her kids has made her a better parent. And it's true. The few times I've had apart from my daughter has given me the distance I needed to see her more clearly and to appreciate her. And, honestly, it's helped her appreciate me, which isAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post-39442831407746294772012-11-11T16:59:19.491-08:002012-11-11T16:59:19.491-08:00A great book, The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner...A great book, The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner.<br />My anger towards my son's stubbornness and oppositional behavior throughout his growing up years did a lot of damage to him, his older brother, their father and myself. I can never forgive myself for the damage I unwittenly caused. You are so much smarter and aware than I was and I'm so happy that your children will benefit from Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post-51805183538102032722012-10-25T16:51:12.565-07:002012-10-25T16:51:12.565-07:00Try talking to your ob/gyn. I was experiencing a ...Try talking to your ob/gyn. I was experiencing a lot of anger as well, and had (I thought) unrelated symptoms. After talking to my ob/gyn, it turns out I was going through perimenopause...my hormones were out of control. I'm on low-dose birth control pills & things are sooo much better. Even though, I'm supposedly a decade too young to start the process, which is why I didn't Sunnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post-34968488448930103182012-10-25T08:06:44.360-07:002012-10-25T08:06:44.360-07:00S- I'm so sorry to read this. I've been th...S- I'm so sorry to read this. I've been there, and I know it's a really awful way to feel. Have you considered spending a few sessions with a therapist to work through things and maybe identify some of the roots of your anger? It might be really helpful. I wish you the best and hope things look brighter (and less aggravating) very soon. Bnoreply@blogger.com