tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post8507923350486297554..comments2023-12-03T06:40:50.836-08:00Comments on Capricious Bubbles: NourishmentShinyunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03223210004939369907noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post-11693749186852290322008-11-09T14:00:17.263-08:002008-11-09T14:00:17.263-08:00I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad that...I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you've gotten a renewed determination and strength, though. You're in my prayers.lil_mnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post-9937267792313496372008-11-09T14:24:16.540-08:002008-11-09T14:24:16.540-08:00My mom had something like seven miscarriages befor...My mom had something like seven miscarriages before getting pregnant with my brother (who stayed in there almost a month past his due date). Because of that, she started trying to get pregnant a second time earlier than she actually wanted a baby, figuring she'd have to go through a few rounds of miscarriages again, but got me on her first try. Thus, my brother and I are 22 months apart.<brGreenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10931380770342598889noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post-40973626010139336782008-11-09T18:22:59.654-08:002008-11-09T18:22:59.654-08:00Hi, I am glad to see you able to be a fighter in t...Hi, I am glad to see you able to be a fighter in this and advocate for yourself & future family. I am sure it's painful, yet I have been told by many that it's so helpful to find purpose in pain, this being said by people who have suffered much. I hope you get answers. You & your loved ones are your best advocates!marzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12119619380887368254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post-26623631708604003632008-11-10T17:05:15.278-08:002008-11-10T17:05:15.278-08:00I don't mean this to sound insensitive, just h...I don't mean this to sound insensitive, just hopeful.<br><br>As a two-time mother by adoption, I can imagine no greater joy than having and loving a child who literally has no one in the world. Women sometimes pity adoptive mothers or the children. They don't understand because they have not adopted. The truth is, I could not possibly love my children any more. That's true in manyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post-71120225257352248432008-11-10T23:38:38.829-08:002008-11-10T23:38:38.829-08:00RESPONSE TO Anonymous @ November 10, 2008 5:05 PM:...RESPONSE TO Anonymous @ November 10, 2008 5:05 PM:<br><br>You sound like an incredible person, with a big heart, and a wonderful family. It is truly a blessing that you have chosen to adopt two children whom you love and cherish. You are lucky to have them, and they are blessed to grow up in your love. <br><br>But I have to be honest and say that I found your post to be insensitive, even though Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post-16011313714533400592008-11-11T04:14:02.939-08:002008-11-11T04:14:02.939-08:00Anon at 11:38, you said EXACTLY what I was thinkin...Anon at 11:38, you said EXACTLY what I was thinking, except more gracefully. It's not that adoption isn't a wonderful choice and it's not that Anon 5:05 was in any way pushy or harsh or inappropriate. She sounds like a wonderful caring and giving person. But I'd bet that her comments are not welcomed by Shinyung right now, since Shinyung remains determined to fight for the Patriciahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05021471455837673671noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6306924738545479337.post-90715144582501553462008-11-11T13:31:34.430-08:002008-11-11T13:31:34.430-08:00Everyone, thank you for your comments as always. ...Everyone, thank you for your comments as always. <br><br>I have to admit the comments about adoption weighed heavily on my mind last night. It isn't that I'm not open to adoption. I actually am, and I have talked to several friends about it already (and had before I even met Jeff). But it's that whisper that things may not work out for me biologically. I can't face that Shinyunghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03223210004939369907noreply@blogger.com