Tuesday, November 17, 2009


It's 5:30 in the morning, and I am listening to the grunts, sighs, wails, and snorts coming out of his little body. I had just picked him up to pat his back to make sure I had burped him properly. After re-swaddling him. And adjusting the folds across his neck to make sure that they weren't brushing too closely to his mouth. Earlier, when he wasn't breathing as heavily, I had leaned in to listen to his breaths, to make sure he was breathing. And took an extra minute to stare at him, as I have done over and over again during the past six and a half weeks.

The little guy -- all 11.5 pounds of him -- fills up our whole house. When we are in the same room, all of our being is directed toward him. When we are elsewhere, his every crackle and sneeze are transmitted through the baby monitor. His noise takes up all of our consciousness and alertness. We crane our necks, stop in our tracks, and still all else to listen to what comes out of him. Does it sound unusual? Is his breathing labored? Is that a cute little snore coming out of the little guy? Doesn't he grumble remarkably like a gremlin?

Sometimes, I still don't believe it. That he's here with us. Two years after we started trying to conceive. After two miscarriages. After fretting that it was taking so long. And then fearing that it may never be.

Now, he is here. With each breath, he announces he is here. And reminds us how he depends on us.

Time now seems to fly by in warp speed, taking with it pieces of him, how he was yesterday, the day before. And presents new discoveries with each day.

All I can do is hold him and be grateful.


  1. Awwwwwwww, so sweet.
    Wish I had a new little baby around here. I think it's time for me to get a job at a daycare.
    Glad you guys are so happy -- can't wait to see more pictures.

  2. I love this post because I feel the same way and you have such a great way with words and describing your experience. hubs and I are experiencing something very similar with our early arrival.

  3. congrats...I have a 2 year old hapa day I am thankful every day... he's watching Sesame Street next to me on the couch right now!

  4. So happy! also, that pic of your mom and him is adorable. He looks ancient, far bigger than his actual age. What a corker! He's actually only a tiny bit younger than my cousin's baby. I admit, I sort of come here hoping to see more pics of T ^_^ I have no shame.

  5. That's so wonderful that he has come into your lives...you deserve all the happiness and joy of being a Mom.